What's Happening ... (Part Two)

As per my previous post, this is a continuation of that post. There are indeed ways to help a loved one cross over even after a traumatic event. One of those methods is to (and I do NOT suggest this lightly without extreme precautions as you need to KNOW what you are doing!) consult a Ouija board. That being said, if you are not comfortable with that idea, there are other ways to find peace and closure after the death of a loved one. I found something in my B.O.S. (Book of Shadows) that may be useful to my friend or anyone who feels that they need closure. 

TO WRITE A LETTER TO YOUR LOVED ONE WHO HAS PASSED: 

Place a piece of paper arranged between two black candles. On the top of the paper, the following inscription should be set: 

"See now, (loved one's name) whom I mourn, the nature of this mourning as you know even now my sorrow and so on this piece of paper do doubly confirm it. I write to you my heart here for your eyes and mine only - that we may be bound by such silent words even better than when our words were spoken. Receive then this document as sign and token of my love and devotion not to forget you - nor to cease mourning you until we meet again." 

Then, write down on the piece of paper the essence of your grief and such aspects of memory as you would fix forever. Afterward, fold the piece of paper and burn it in sage. Thus the message will be received.

Another way is to wrap your loved one in white light! I have learned much from my High Priestess friend and Reiki Master, Lady Sabrina Rhiannon after many years. And, after consulting her regarding my friend's situation, she had the following advice:

Yes, in addition to wrapping them in white light, do a private ritual. call in Archangel Michael for protection and cutting any karmic cord. Also archangel Azrael to assist his passage. If there are any lingering issues Archangel Jeremael will help with life review.

Losing a loved one is always hard enough to deal with without any additional guilt or uncertainty. I, personally, can very much relate to THAT.