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Sunday, October 09, 2011

Charmed, I'm Sure! The Ethics of Love Spells

Once in a while, someone will come up to me and ask, "Can you do love spells?" and "Is that how you ended up with your husband? Did you perform one on him?" The answer to these and many other questions regarding any type of spell, can be found in the Wiccan Rede which states,"...these eight words the rede fulfill and it harm none do what ye will." It is the last part of The Wiccan Rede and a very important one at that! Yes, even love spells have ethics. Magick is the art of changing consciousness and physcial reality in accordance with will while using the laws of nature (i.e. the elements and the Goddess & God). The idea is to enhance your life without interfering with or harming someone else's. Nor should you cast spells for someone else without their consent or knowledge. In doing so, you are interfering with that persons' free will and right to choose. This includes, of course, love spells!

That being said, love spells, as well as any other spell, should be thought through very carefully. Casting a spell to gain the affections of a specific person can easily back fire on the caster! For example, suppose the intended man or woman turns out to be someone totally wrong for you? He or she may turn out to be married, abusive or just plain incompatible! There are better ways to use love spells to your advantage. Instead of asking for a specific person, ask the Goddess & God to send you the man or woman that is right for you - without any preconceived notions or ideas of what that person may look like. Another really great (and fun!) way to use a love spell is "love enhancement." After all, if your sweetheart is already in love with you, why not heat things up a bit? I find them to be very exciting and they really do work wonderfully!

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  1. Excellent post for those not "in the know" of how magick should be used. And, ooooh la la, you and your "love enhancement".......do I see steam coming out of your blog!!! LOL!!

  2. Hardly anyone of the "respectable" witches I love will admit to it, but everybody has tried love spells at some point or other... and the results were always something they learned from. (I "witched" myself a stalker a few years back.)

  3. Well said, my sister. I think back and if I had done a love spell on the one I wanted instead of the one for me, my life would surely be a mess now!

  4. Robin ~ LOL! I like to throw a post in once in a while for new-commers and hope that they "think" things through (unlike I once did) before acting. ;)

    Diandra ~ I hear that! Dare I say, I played around with a love spell many years ago when I was a "newbie" and it took 2 years to get the guy to leave me alone! Definately a lesson learned!

    Bliss ~ I couldn't agree with you more! You are much better off with "the one for you"!!!! ;)



  5. "...without any preconceived notions or ideas of what that person may look like."

    Looks aren't the only surprise one should be willing to deal with when casting such a spell. I knew two witches in their twenties, each of whom asked for the person who was right for them (although one of them thought she already knew what the will of the gods had to be, and had her eyes on one specific someone).

    Each of them were presented with gentlemen roughly 20 years older than they were! One of them (who was sure she knew better, and certain that her spell had malfunctioned) continued to chase that other specific someone, eventually caught him, and (sad to say) her life has been mostly miserable ever since; the other, though seriously surprised at her 'catch', gave the relationship a chance, and has been in the process of living happily ever after ever since -- as I should well know, 'cause we've been married for 18 years so far!

  6. Nice blog regarding a
    love spell
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  7. I like your views on love spell yes indeed you must be carefull while casting a spell and follow all intructions. thanks and keep it up

  8. Very good post! Well said! I know for myself, on the journey this year, of really getting to know me! Of truly loving myself, I know now, no more spells! We are all pure energy. Now, I concentrate on love, peace and happiness. I say my affirmations and make the best of everything. If I conquer a situation or person, I don't like or doesn't click with me, I use, calmness, compassion and truth. I am truly a child of this universe and I love mother earth! Being the best person I can be!
    I miss you Kim! Love you my friend!! Big Hugs!