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Showing posts with label St. Valentine's Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label St. Valentine's Day. Show all posts

Sunday, February 15, 2026

Valentine's Day Weekend

Blessed Sunday, friends! Hope everyone had a very nice weekend. Upon returning home from work at 11PM on Thursday night, I was surprised by a pretty bouquet of flowers in the kitchen from my hubby for Valentine's Day!

On Saturday afternoon, after dropping off my car to be repaired, we frequented a local venue, "The Fairgrounds Square Farmer's Market" and found these cool little items for Valentine's Day and Spring/Ostara ...  

Later on, we decided to have dinner at a really good restaurant located directly down the road from us called, "Klinger's at The Airport". They had entertainment which made for a very relaxing dining atmosphere ... 💕

Sunday, February 16, 2025

Of Valentine's Day Past



Ah yes, when one thinks of the Valentine's Day celebrations growing up as a child, it is hard not to remember one Lupercalia custom which everyone in my class particiated in (even if we did not realize at the time that it was actually pagan in nature). That long- practiced tradition of exchanging Valentine's Day cards. Even the Luthern Sunday School which my brother and I belonged to at the time allowed all of us children to do so.

 
In elementary school, we were told to write out a card for each and every fellow student and then place all of the cards into a big box. We all took turns at picking out a card from the box until they were all gone. This way, everyone received a Valentine's greeting and no one was left out ~ making Valentine's Day a group celebration everyone could enjoy.
Unlike the Lupercalia festivals which the Roman's celebrated centuries ago, the evolution of this holiday has changed the way in which we view this holiday quite a bit. For example, instead of making it a community or group celebration, we as a society have turned it into mere commercialism. While receiving a rather expensive bouquet of roses, chocolates and/or a stuffed teddy bear from our beloved may give us a warm, special feeling inside, it hardly does very much for those who spend this holiday at home alone feeling unloved or unappreciated.
 
Now, I am not in any way suggesting that we hold a lover lottery for all and allow men to chase women around while lightly hitting them with a thong made from a sacrificial animal. All I am saying is that instead of being known as a holiday tradition made for couples only, we should find a way to make this holiday a tad more group oriented to include anyone. And thereby, everyone would have the chance to join in the fun. 
 
Speaking of fun, the following music video called "Asymmetrical Girl" by the group "Artbreak" was made (and sung) by a former classmate of mine from Wilson High School, Chip Kidd, the renowned graphic designer and writer. He was a drummer/percussionist in our High School Band back then. 🥁
Blast from the Past: Chip Kidd on drum set at the 1982-83 Wilson High School Stage Band Festival; and me when I was a twirler in Band Front (bottom pic).

ENJOY and have a great rest of the weekend, friends!

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Saturday, February 15, 2025

Valentine's Day Weekend

 

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY WEEKEND, FRIENDS! My hubby surprised me with these two Valentines Day cards after I came home from work last night ...

Hubby and I back in the year 1995 ...


 And, today ...

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And, a special THANK YOU to one of my thoughtful co-workers for surprising me at work yesterday with this little chocolate "goodie" box of candy ... YUMMY!!

Many thanks, Ms. Bea! 💖

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The current scene outside of our house in Reading, PA. (this pic was taken at 1pm this afternoon and it is STILL coming down here!) 😖


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"She dances in a ring of fire ... and throws off the challenge with a shrug" - Jim Morrison

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Wednesday, February 12, 2025

Lupercalia: The History of a Holiday!


What's in a Holiday?: Lupercalia

I have always been fascinated by our holiday traditions and where they actually came from. St. Valentine’s Day, as with so many of the contemporary holidays which we, as Americans, celebrate today, has its’ beginnings in Paganism. In ancient Rome, a Pagan fertility and purification festival called Lupercalia, was celebrated. Lupercalia is uniquely Roman and was named after the fertility god Lupercus, protector of flocks against wolves. In fact, he was often identified with the gods Pan and Faunus.
Lupercalia was an important festival and historical records indicate that Mark Antony was Master of the Luperci College of Priests. In the year 44BC,, he chose the Lupercalia festival as the proper time to offer the crown to Julius Caesar. Since February occurred later on the ancient calendar than it does today, Lupercalia was held in the spring. Each year on February 15, the Luperci priests gathered on Palatine Hill at the cave of Lupercal. Young men wore their loincloths and led the priests around the pomerium, the sacred boundary of the ancient city, and around the base of the hills of Rome.

Long after Palatine became the center of the powerful city, state and empire of Rome, the Lupercalia festival lived on. Roman armies took the Lupercalia customs with them as they invaded France and Britain. One of these customs was a lottery where the names of available maidens were placed in a box and then drawn by the young men. Each man accepted the girl whose name he drew as his love for the duration of the festival, which lasted from February 13th to the 15th, sometimes longer.

Circa 289AD, a Christian named Valentine of Rome was martyred under the Emperor Claudius. Valentine was a bishop in the city who was arrested for giving aid to prisoners. While in prison, he was said to have converted his jailer by healing the man’s blind daughters’ sight. He then fell in love with her and from his death row cell, he wrote her a note signed, “From Your Valentine.”

Somewhere around 197AD, Christianity began to slowly do away with the Pagan pantheons. It frequently replaced the festivals of the Pagan gods with its’ own modern celebrations to fit the life and teachings of Christ. Lupercalia, with its’ lover lottery, had no place in the new order. In the year 496AD, Pope Gelasius did away with the festival of Lupercalia, citing it as Pagan and immoral. He chose Valentine as the Patron Saint of lovers who would be honored at the new festival on February 14th.

It is believed that the very first valentine cards were the slips of paper bearing the names of maidens the early Romans first drew. Or, perhaps the note which Valentine passed to his sweetheart from his prison cell.

By the 17th century; however, handmade cards became quite elaborate and pre-fabricated ones were only for the wealthy. In 1797, a British publisher issued, “The Young Man’s Valentine Writer,” which contained suggested sentimental literature for the young lover. Today, the St. Valentine’s Day traditions continue with the giving of chocolates, jewelry and flowers. An estimated 1 billion St. Valentine’s Day cards will be sent worldwide, making it the second most celebrated holiday after Christmas.

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Wednesday, February 14, 2024

How I spent Valentine's Day ...

 

Long story short, I spent this Valentine's Day taking one of my last few FMLA days (unpaid) in order to be available for numerous phone calls from Reading Hospital where my mom was admitted into last Friday (AND, twice two in weeks before this momentous emergency stay - don't ask it is far too stressful to deal with anymore). My husband is on call after hours all this week until Sunday and he stopped by the house in between assignments in order to gift me with these lovely roses ...


Also, while waiting around for calls, I decided to finally clean up the catio where "Messy Merlin" spends most of his time ...




Some pics of yesterday's snow storm ...


Monday, February 13, 2023

Lupercalia: The History of a Holiday! (and a pleasant surprise!)


What's in a Holiday?: Lupercalia

I have always been fascinated by our holiday traditions and where they actually came from. St. Valentine’s Day, as with so many of the contemporary holidays which we, as Americans, celebrate today, has its’ beginnings in Paganism. In ancient Rome, a Pagan fertility and purification festival called Lupercalia, was celebrated. Lupercalia is uniquely Roman and was named after the fertility god Lupercus, protector of flocks against wolves. In fact, he was often identified with the gods Pan and Faunus.
Lupercalia was an important festival and historical records indicate that Mark Antony was Master of the Luperci College of Priests. In the year 44BC,, he chose the Lupercalia festival as the proper time to offer the crown to Julius Caesar. Since February occurred later on the ancient calendar than it does today, Lupercalia was held in the spring. Each year on February 15, the Luperci priests gathered on Palatine Hill at the cave of Lupercal. Young men wore their loincloths and led the priests around the pomerium, the sacred boundary of the ancient city, and around the base of the hills of Rome.

Long after Palatine became the center of the powerful city, state and empire of Rome, the Lupercalia festival lived on. Roman armies took the Lupercalia customs with them as they invaded France and Britain. One of these customs was a lottery where the names of available maidens were placed in a box and then drawn by the young men. Each man accepted the girl whose name he drew as his love for the duration of the festival, which lasted from February 13th to the 15th, sometimes longer.

Circa 289AD, a Christian named Valentine of Rome was martyred under the Emperor Claudius. Valentine was a bishop in the city who was arrested for giving aid to prisoners. While in prison, he was said to have converted his jailer by healing the man’s blind daughters’ sight. He then fell in love with her and from his death row cell, he wrote her a note signed, “From Your Valentine.”

Somewhere around 197AD, Christianity began to slowly do away with the Pagan pantheons. It frequently replaced the festivals of the Pagan gods with its’ own modern celebrations to fit the life and teachings of Christ. Lupercalia, with its’ lover lottery, had no place in the new order. In the year 496AD, Pope Gelasius did away with the festival of Lupercalia, citing it as Pagan and immoral. He chose Valentine as the Patron Saint of lovers who would be honored at the new festival on February 14th.

It is believed that the very first valentine cards were the slips of paper bearing the names of maidens the early Romans first drew. Or, perhaps the note which Valentine passed to his sweetheart from his prison cell.

By the 17th century; however, handmade cards became quite elaborate and pre-fabricated ones were only for the wealthy. In 1797, a British publisher issued, “The Young Man’s Valentine Writer,” which contained suggested sentimental literature for the young lover. Today, the St. Valentine’s Day traditions continue with the giving of chocolates, jewelry and flowers. An estimated 1 billion St. Valentine’s Day cards will be sent worldwide, making it the second most celebrated holiday after Christmas.

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More on the origins of this holiday is further explored in this article from the "Tamed Wild" website: 

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Last night after I got home from work, hubby surprised me with these beautiful gifts!

Have a Blessed day, however you choose to celebrate this special holiday!

Rounding out the weekend

Happy Monday everyone! Just a couple of takeaways left over from the weekend ...

Last week, my friend Chef Jesenia came back from her vacation and thought of me. She handed me a cute little gift bag and inside of it was this ...
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And, a kind co-worker gave me this sweet chocolate rose last Friday!

Have a Blessed week all!!

Saturday, February 11, 2023

Weekend happenings


Happy Saturday everyone! I hope you all had a good week. Mine was crazy, but I got through it thank Goddess! At any rate, I was fortunate enough to enjoy a lunch date with my long-time friend Kiki (my goddaughter's grandmother) on Friday before I had to go to work ...


We met at Ganly's Irish Pub where we had a delicious meal - I had the PA Dutch Chicken Potpie ....
 
And Kiki enjoyed Ruben Empanadas with a Caesar salad

We also had an early Valentine's Day feast at work. Each co-worker brought a little something for all to eat and drink ...

I decided to bake some Red Velvet cupcakes with M&M Strawberry Shake flavored candy on top! ...

Tonight for dinner, I tried out a new recipe - Teriyaki Hamburgers made in the Air Fryer Oven. They are quick and easy to make and my husband loved them! ...

All you need is:
1 pound lean ground beef
1/2 cup plain dry bread crumbs (optional)
1/4 cup reduced-sodium ketchup
2 tablespoons reduced-sodium teriyaki sauce
1/2 teaspoon black pepper
6 Kaiser rolls or hamburger buns, warmed
4 leaves green leaf lettuce
4 slices tomato


1) Combine beef, bread crumbs, ketchup, teriyaki sauce, and pepper in a large bowl; mix well. Shape beef into four 1/2 inch thick patties. 

2) Preheat air fryer to 370 degrees Fahrenheit.

3) Cook in batches 8 to 10 minutes, turning halfway through cooking, until desired doneness. Place patties on rolls and serve with lettuce and tomato.

Tonight, I am going to bake a few strawberry cupcakes in the air fryer oven per my mom's request. 

Have a great weekend all!